Teachers that have the most success with behavioural students are able to establish a relationship with the student. So how to you develop a relationship with a student in your class that is particularly challenging?
- Find ways to interact with the student one-on-one. I learned really quick to never discipline or call a student out for their behaviour in front of their peers. The same applies to building a relationship with a student. It can be difficult in a group setting to make a connection with a student. Invite the student to play a game of cards, have lunch together, join a club you are running etc.
- Find ways to connect to the student through one of their interests.
- Be a good listener. Do not judge or point out the negative.
- Show the student that you believe in them and that you like them despite the behaviours they demonstrate
- Be consistent
- Show interest in their personal life, empathize, listen and offer support
- Bottom line in order to develop a relationship the student must be able to trust you and they need to know that you have their best interest at heart.
Developing learning profiles for students in your class will be especially helpful in getting to know your students and what they need to succeed. Also, if the student does not know how to advocate for their needs or what they need to succeed then you can support the student in their learning journey.
" The more we understand our students, the more efficient we can ensure their learning successes." McCarthy. When we have in-depth understanding for how our students learn, there is a major impact on diagnosing student needs and planning effective supports. When a student can see that you are advocating for their needs, helping them to succeed and giving them an equitable opportunity to succeed, your relationship with that student will grow. When students are constantly in a learning environment that is above their zone of development the student is going to be frustrated and could present challenging behaviour. Thus in learning about your students' needs and differentiating the learning experiences in your classroom you are in fact killing two birds with one stone: building relationships and diminishing unwanted behaviour.
I came across an excellent site with activities to use with students to create learning profiles. http://www.livebinders.com/play/play?id=475167#anchor
The website was referenced in the article "Welcome to Learner Profiles" at https://edpd593finalproject.weebly.com/
John McCarthy posted strategies for collecting learning profiles on his blog: http://openingpaths.org/blog/differentiation-learning-preferences/
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